CCTRJ in the Milton Times Change Makers Column
BY REV. LISA WARD, SEPTEMBER 2021
It is an honor to be asked to share a bit about Courageous Conversations Towards Racial Justice (CCTRJ) in this month’s Milton Change Makers column. Entering our sixth year of reaching out and reaching in to deepen our understanding and widen our advocacy, it is uplifting to share this journey with other “change makers”.
We have come to know, in profound and painful ways during this global pandemic, that we are intricately connected to one another; what Martin Luther King, Jr. named “an inescapable network of mutuality.”
This new and ancient learning can strengthen our way of being with one another, especially towards issues of diversity, equity and inclusion. Many advocates have been able to see anew the places of dysfunction, inequity and negligence that keep us from thriving as a vibrantly diverse, color rich society.
CCTRJ strives to work together to reveal inequity, uplift diversity and address shifts needed for true inclusion. As stated in our mission statement: “Through dialogues, workshops, events, study groups, and collaborations on race and privilege, we hope to build a movement in which we hold ourselves and one another accountable to understanding and transforming deep rooted attitudes and behaviors in order to end systems of white supremacy culture and racism, recognizing the intersectionality of other social oppressions.”
This comes through building relationships and strengthening mutuality. It comes from the humility of recognizing that we cannot fully know what transformation will look like, yet having the courage to walk together into the unknown. It comes from deepening in care of one another and sharing our stories to broaden understanding. It comes from showing up, again and again, to recognize that we are, indeed, intricately connected.
Our group has been going through our own learning, growing and discovery around how to build capacity with a team of volunteers, many who work full time in other capacities. We have been evaluating how to go forward in a way that maintains a steady presence and strengthens resilience. Stay tuned for further developments.
Our next time to offer opportunities for conversation is on Family Day at the Eustis Estate, October 2. Drop by anytime between 10 am – 2 pm. This is a joint effort in collaboration with Quincy for Transformative Change and Celebrate Milton. Powerful, stunning works of art are displayed throughout the grounds, lending themselves to experiences of insight and learning.
CCTRJ Milton/Mattapan welcomes your stories, insights, vision and readiness for racial justice. This is a lifelong path that we can travel with and for each other. Please do visit our website. There you can sign up for our newsletter. Come expand community with us, for in the words of Audre Lorde: “Without community, there is no liberation.”
Our own Karen Groce Horan presents her occasional blog
BY KAREN GROCE HORAN, FEBRUARY 2021
I, Karen Groce Horan, am committing to live this February '21, not Black History month but Black History IS American History Month in an altogether new way. When I contemplated writing this my first official blog post, I had a different plan in mind. As I meditated on it, my thoughts took a whole new surprising direction. As a Black woman with West Indian and African American roots, I have lived a life where I did not see my story in the K-12 history (His-Story) books I was educated in, for history has been written by the victors. Upon realizing and reconciling this, somewhere in my early 20's, I committed to a journey of learning, growing, understanding, and knowing the history of my ancestry, on whose shoulders I stand. On whose very resilience and strength my own existence is founded and built.
So how will this month of February this year of 2021 be different for me? I am going to challenge myself to live outside my comfort zone and expand beyond my echo chamber. This YouTube video Black man under cover got me thinking. It also reminds me of the movie BlacKkKlansman based on the life of police officer Ron Stallworth. So while I continue the internal work to learn and grow in my understanding of history, I will also seek resources that stretch me, that perhaps challenge my ability to find a lens into that far other side of the spectrum of my anti-racism perspective. My goal is perhaps to find a better understanding of the very racist views and perhaps why there are people that hold true to mistruths about race based constructs. My goal is to bring change and we cannot change what we don't understand.
What will I find, what might I discover, what will I share and discuss with others? Will it bring reconciliation with an older brother, Black with skin a rich, deep hue of brown similar to mine, whose political views couldn't be further from my own; given all that we have lived, witnessed, experienced and been especially astounded by in the months and years leading up to Jan. 6, 2021? These are the perspectives I hope to explore, and learn more about. I certainly don't expect it to cause any great shift in my views, thoughts or opinions. I just hope it can shed light - the light that Amanda Gorman '21 inaugural poet, first Youth Poet Laureate speaks of in her poem The Hill We Climb - "For there is always light, if only we're brave enough to see it, if only we are brave enough to be it."
This February, the month I will now call Black History IS American History Month, may we all be brave enough to be it and see it; and may we find truth and reconciliation on this journey to justice. Join us on this journey, share resources with others and decide what action you can take to bring change and make a difference to dismantle racism and the systems that continue to treat people differently depending on the race they happened to be born into.
Karen Groce-Horan is Co-Founder and Exec. Director of CCTRJ-MIlton Mattapan and during the week serves as Senior Director of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion at United Way Mass Bay.
Some resources I will be spending time with-